Last night, a client who is also a good friend and a brother in Christ messaged me. He asked, “Do you think there is any chance of civility in this country anymore?” Figuring he was referring to the SOTU dust-up I replied, “There is always a chance, but the 2 parties’ leaders need to show the way. Pelosi and Trump won’t get that done. Both are petulant children.”
Now, depending the side of the aisle on which you sit, you may not like that last statement. Well…the truth hurts and that statement is the truth. We have fallen into this mode of “if you don’t agree with me then I must hate you.” That is a massive fallacy. We don’t have to agree with everything someone believes, in order to extend brotherly/sisterly love to them. Jesus reminded us in the second part of the Great Commandment “…love your neighbor as yourself.”
In politics, in society and in business we are NEVER going to agree 100% with those around us. But to succeed in any endeavor, we must work together and that requires a little grace, a little mercy and a whole lotta love (to quote Led Zeppelin). As leaders, it is our duty to model that behavior and show the way. Let’s start today!!